Inspiration and Motivation for People with Big Dreams
At times life can be frustrating and overwhelming. It seems like things are a lot harder than they need to be or nothing is going right. You don’t have to succumb to the negative effects of hard work. Instead, you can reignite the passion in your dream and start succeeding.
You’ve thought about it, talked about it, and done nothing about it. It’s time to get yourself up and get your life on track to follow your dream. As I live my words and follow my dream, I want to share my experiences and advice with fellow dreamers who are ready to live their life, already.
The hardest part is starting to live your dream. You need to have a beginning, a push, a first step. Well, here’s step one.
It’s no secret that people fear interviews, auditions, and most of all, public speaking. As Jerry Seinfeld put it, “The average person at a funeral would rather be in the casket than doing the eulogy.”
Before interviews and auditions I always get nervous and have to psyche myself up. Usually by the time the actual event comes around, I’ve calmed down and nail it. It’s by no inherent confidence that I do this, since most of the time I can’t eat and feel the horrible twisting of my stomach just like anyone else. Pre-game determination and steps to psychologically get yourself ready will far outweigh even the most overconfident person’s preparedness.
Here are some of the most helpful things you can do to boost your confidence and overcome your fear.
How often have you decided not to ask a question because you’re afraid of failure?
I know it’s been more than once for me. Sometimes the answer can be harsher than a “no” and sometimes the answer can be better than a “yes.” Wouldn’t it be nice to know which answer you’re going to get before you ask the question?
Here are 9 ways to lean the potential answer toward your objective and get people saying “yes” to you:
Sometimes it’s hard to support someone’s dream without feeling left behind. Other times it can feel like their dream is not at all what you had hoped it would be.
There are ways to feel like you’re part of the dream and have a positive influence, though.
From this experience, and as a big dreamer myself, I learned a few vital ways to help someone achieve their big dream whether or not you can give them the leg up they need.
Since I posted the first chapter of Big Dreams I’ve gotten a lot of people telling me they don’t know what their big dream is.
So, since I have struggled with this myself from time to time I found the easiest way to pin it down is to ask myself some specific and concrete questions. I’ve written 15 questions that will help you find your dream, but you will probably only need 1 or 2 before it hits you.
There have been a million circus acts, but only one has stood above the rest internationally. So why not take a few hints?
I had the pleasure of taking my father to see the Cirque Du Soleil performance of Saltimbanco for his birthday last week and wanted to share some of the ingredients of success I picked up.
Using these ingredients is a sure recipe for success. Cirque Du Soleil might not have been the first circus, but it’s definitely the best. Many don’t even consider it a circus anymore because of how high class and professional it is.
Now go own the world.
No matter what your dream is, you have to be unique to succeed.
You have to fill a niche.
Niche marketing is the process of finding and serving profitable market segments and designing custom-made products or services for them. ( Wikipedia )
In this case, you are the product. All you have to do to sell yourself is to be yourself.
This doesn’t mean you have to be making money or have any sales at all. Instead, I’m talking about being successful and living your dream because you are you.
If there was only one person whose blood could cure AIDs, wouldn’t they be pretty popular? What if there was only one person that had light skin and everyone else had dark skin? Now, what if someone created a simple and effective search engine when everyone else was trying to add tons and tons of features to their search engines? I’ll give you a hint: Google.
Every best-selling author isn’t the best writer in the world. A lot of actors aren’t beautiful until after they get famous and some never have to be beautiful. Talent works in many ways.
There are people who are more famous than the #1 ranked athlete in their field. The best example of this? Anna Kournikova. Why do you know that name and face so well when you probably can’t name the top 10 female tennis players? Even though she hasn’t won a single open, and has only been to the finals 4 times in her career, she is still one of the most well known female tennis players of all time.
Why is that? Because she is pretty good and tennis and pretty good looking. Now, how does that work to your advantage?
Not only is being the best at one very difficult, but it also limits you. You may have to work your entire life to be the best golfer to ever have lived. Maybe you will be the next Beethoven, that is awesome. But if you want to be amazing at piano, sing, and have ridiculous lyrics, then you might have to sacrifice a bit in each area to be successful. By no means should you give up trying to be the best. Instead, you should try to succumb to your favorite and best talents and allow them to intertwine. In this way you will become unique and successful because no one else is so dedicated to what you do.
As long as you’re following your dream and truly living for it, you will be successful.
Now go own the world.
The perfect idea: It’s big. No, it’s huge. It’s sure to get tons and tons of feedback and interest. It’ll be viral and captivating. Even Little Jimmy from the other side of the world will want it. But will it ever get released?
The good idea: Its got the right stuff. It may not be perfect, but it’s definitely feasible. It can be executed soon and well. Maybe the idea has been done before, but not this way. There’s a lot of possibility but all the pieces haven’t quite fit together.
Which one are you going to choose?
If you’re smart, you’ll pick the good idea.
If you’ve got the perfect idea and the perfect resources, then great. More power to you. But, most of the time you won’t have that luxury. Instead, you just have to go for it. You may never get the “perfect” team to do the work. The resources might be out of your reach for now. Hell, your idea may never get to the point of perfection in the first place.
That didn’t stop the world’s leading companies from getting where they are now. Let’s take a few big examples.
Or should I say, “The Facebook.” Uglier than sin, this website was fairly unknown and rather clunky in its infancy. It was available to only a few universities and had very basic functionality (except poking… that was always available, thank God). Did it matter? No. Mark and his team worked at adding universities and databases until it became the all-encompassing leviathan we love today.
It wasn’t perfect when it was conceived. It wasn’t perfect when it was released. Actually, far from it. But the kinks were worked out and it moved forward to become a huge success.
Once upon a time there was no such thing as a pretty computer. Not even Apple had anything you could consider “sexy” without having enough liquor in you to take out a horse. Their market share was so minimal most people would laugh at the idea of owning a Macintosh.
Then something happened. Innovation. Industrial design. Jonathan Ive. Macintosh came from the depths to exert itself as a sexy machine with a beautiful interface and came equipped with plenty of eye candy. Apple became the manufacturers of the only technology that makes you sexier by owning it.
You start with the good idea and improve upon it as you go.
You make mistakes, you correct for error. You practice, and practice, and research, and then you practice and tweak some more. The perfect idea is not in the conception, but in the execution. How you do it and how you get it to your target is what really matters.
So figure out how you’re going to get started and get to it. You’ve already got the idea. Run with it.
Now go own the world.
Why aren’t you pursuing your dream?
Most people are afraid to pursue their dreams because they don’t know what the future will have in store for them. They don’t know what’s coming. Bad things could happen. How unfortunate that people with skill, talent, and natural ability get lost because of fear.
It takes drive. It takes determination. It takes will. You have to want it so bad that whatever happens in the future is worth the sacrifices.
It’s time to stop fearing the future and start living for it.
Every day won’t be perfect. Sometimes you will fail. Sometimes no one will want to listen to you. Sometimes everyone will turn the other way.
Sometimes you will succeed, though. Sometimes you will win. Sometimes everyone will rejoice and want more of you.
It is the strength to get through the tough times that makes the good times so wonderful.
That’s what makes life worth living. Not knowing how your actions or the actions of others will effect your life is why you keep trying every day. The danger of good things happening, the unknown, even the supposed certainties.
We all know we’re going to die. That’s a certainty. But we’ve all wondered “What if I didn’t die? What if there was a way?”
The danger of the future is what makes it wondrous, exciting, mysterious, enigmatic, fantastic, and worth seeing.
So what are you waiting for? Go get it. Reach for your dream. Your life can only get better from here.
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