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The anxiety of throwing away your worries and your past to follow your dream is tremendous. But, the benefits of taking that first big step are worth it tenfold.
Once I took the big leap, I realized the amazing feelings it gave me to be doing what I’ve always wanted to do. Not very often can you find these feelings. In fact, sometimes the only way to feel them is to make a big change in your life to follow your dream and your heart.
You’ve thought about it, talked about it, and done nothing about it. It’s time to get yourself up and get your life on track to follow your dream. As I live my words and follow my dream, I want to share my experiences and advice with fellow dreamers who are ready to live their life, already.
The hardest part is starting to live your dream. You need to have a beginning, a push, a first step. Well, here’s step one.

There have been a million circus acts, but only one has stood above the rest internationally. So why not take a few hints?
I had the pleasure of taking my father to see the Cirque Du Soleil performance of Saltimbanco for his birthday last week and wanted to share some of the ingredients of success I picked up.
- Make your mistakes look they are part of the act. Three times a performer fell off his bicycle and just jumped right back on in a flashy way. Everyone clapped. So what if you screw up? Roll with it. If you perfect the art of making your mistakes look like part of the plan, you are going to be successful.
- Always smile. Even when one of the acrobats was falling to his potential doom, he had a big grin on his face. Whether it hurts, or it’s hard to do, just smile through it. If people never see you down, they will think you know what you’re doing and your happiness will be contagious.
- People respect risk takers. Two twin girls on a flying trapeze were tossing each other and catching each other by their ankles right before they would have flown into the stadium and surely died. It was amazing. If you do something someone else wouldn’t do, you’ll be envied and trusted. Being strong-headed and confident will win you many friends and opportunities.
- Your talent can be used somewhere. If you can do a headstand while lifting yourself by only one hand on your twin brother’s bald head, someone will buy it. From the most mundane to the most bizarre, you can find a niche.
- Humor works. Everything in the show was done in a light fashion. Nothing was taken seriously, even if it was very dangerous. This let people relax and enjoy the experience while they are happily smiling and laughing. Humor lets people enjoy you, like you, and want to be supportive of you.
- Use a language everyone can understand. For half an hour people were entertained by a guy running around making noises with his mouth and miming actions. Remember, Cirque Du Soleil has no English in it, only French. A room full of English-speakers still got what was going on and related. So use your language in more ways than just with your words. People want to see actions and will understand when you make something familiar.
- Make it flashy. The costumes, lights, and set were not only colorful, but also filled with the sound of music from the band. It made the experience inviting and engrossing. Like any great show, you were taken to another world where all your worries were taken away. If you can make a presentation or even speak to people with such wit and whim that they get lost in your words, you can win them over. Work on not just telling the story, but making people want to hear more.
- People want you to succeed. Yes, even amidst the “is she going to fall?” and “there’s no way” everyone looked on and hoped that the most amazing things would be revealed before our eyes. Other people may doubt you, but deep down they want to see if you can do it. They want to see what you’re made of. So, show them.
- Anticipation is almost as good as what actually happens. Building up to each incredible feat there was a feeling of excitement. The kind of excitement that only comes from knowing you’re going to experience something amazing for the first time. Then it happens. The rush of enjoyment comes to you and is perfect. If you just show people what you can do without showmanship or building anticipation, it will be far less effective. Make them want to see it, make them hunger for it. You’d better have the goods to show though, or you’ll lose credibility faster than Britney Spears.
- Include your audience. Before the show the entertainers came out and interacted with the crowd while staying in character. They had everyone laughing and excited about the show. Then, mid-way through the show a character went out and picked an audience member to be on stage with him. While making sound effects with his mouth and miming, he had the audience member follow his actions. When he didn’t comply it was funny, and when he did it was even funnier. The variable of having a real person participating in an unscripted event makes the other audience members really connect with you.
Using these ingredients is a sure recipe for success. Cirque Du Soleil might not have been the first circus, but it’s definitely the best. Many don’t even consider it a circus anymore because of how high class and professional it is.
Now go own the world.-Ravi Vora
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Get prepared to do something with your life.
These sources of inspiration will literally change the way you think, live, and perceive other people and yourself.
- CAN - The story of the strongest father in the world. Read the story. Watch the video. Grab a lot of tissue.
- Post Secret - A collection of intimate secrets sent in by postcard every week. Warning: you will be addicted.
- We Feel Fine - An exploration of human emotion by social contribution displayed in beautiful visual form.
- Phil Hansen - An artist with such dedication and detail that he used a quart of his own blood to paint a giant portrait of Kim Jong Il. His vision and sacrifice is bizarre and moving.
- Stephen Wiltshire - Nick-named “The Human Camera,” Stephen has autism and can draw a cityscape almost to perfection by only seeing it once in a helicopter ride.
- 43 Things - A social collection of things people want to do. Join and see what people are doing to accomplish their goals.
- Really Achieving Your Childhood Dreams - A dying 47-year old professor gives his last lecture. Worth every minute of the video.
- The Eight Principles of Fun - A unique flash presentation of the principles of having fun with an emphasis on being unique.
- My Kid Could Paint That - The story of a 4-year old girl who has been likened to Pollock, Kandinsky, and even Picasso. She has sold over $300,000 worth of paintings and has been largely criticized as a potential fraud. I believe in her and can’t wait to see the movie.
- This quote by Juan Ramon Jimenez:
If they give you ruled paper, write the other way.
- (BONUS) Top 15 Lies People Tell You About Pursuing Your Dreams - An article I wrote describing 15 of the most common lies people tell you to sabotage your success.
If you have any other mind-blowing sources of inspiration, please leave a comment and share.
-Ravi Vora
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No matter what your dream is, you have to be unique to succeed.
You have to fill a niche.
Niche marketing is the process of finding and serving profitable market segments and designing custom-made products or services for them. ( Wikipedia )
In this case, you are the product. All you have to do to sell yourself is to be yourself.
This doesn’t mean you have to be making money or have any sales at all. Instead, I’m talking about being successful and living your dream because you are you.
Being one-of-a-kind is imperative to being the first, last, and the most remembered.
If there was only one person whose blood could cure AIDs, wouldn’t they be pretty popular? What if there was only one person that had light skin and everyone else had dark skin? Now, what if someone created a simple and effective search engine when everyone else was trying to add tons and tons of features to their search engines? I’ll give you a hint: Google.
Being unique doesn’t always mean being the best at everything, or even the stereotypical best in your field.
Every best-selling author isn’t the best writer in the world. A lot of actors aren’t beautiful until after they get famous and some never have to be beautiful. Talent works in many ways.

Sometimes talent isn’t the be-all end-all factor, either.
There are people who are more famous than the #1 ranked athlete in their field. The best example of this? Anna Kournikova. Why do you know that name and face so well when you probably can’t name the top 10 female tennis players? Even though she hasn’t won a single open, and has only been to the finals 4 times in her career, she is still one of the most well known female tennis players of all time.
Why is that? Because she is pretty good and tennis and pretty good looking. Now, how does that work to your advantage?
Simply put, you will be more likely to succeed if you are better than 3/4 of the people at two things than if you are better than everyone at one thing.
Not only is being the best at one very difficult, but it also limits you. You may have to work your entire life to be the best golfer to ever have lived. Maybe you will be the next Beethoven, that is awesome. But if you want to be amazing at piano, sing, and have ridiculous lyrics, then you might have to sacrifice a bit in each area to be successful. By no means should you give up trying to be the best. Instead, you should try to succumb to your favorite and best talents and allow them to intertwine. In this way you will become unique and successful because no one else is so dedicated to what you do.
As long as you’re following your dream and truly living for it, you will be successful.
Now go own the world.-Ravi Vora
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Take a seat, stop eating that burger, and listen. There are ugly people in Hollywood.
Not only are they successful, but they are famous, loved, and above all, talented. Even though they don’t fit the stereotypical “beautiful people” standard for the big screen, they do fit the talented and qualified in their field standard for success.
So strap in, get ready to have your beliefs shattered, and enjoy the ugly.
20 Ugly Actors that are successful
Mike Myers
As seen in: Wayne’s World, So I Married an Axe Murderer, Austin Powers: International Man of Mystery, Shrek, Shrek 2, Shrek the Third, Mystery, Alaska
Willem Dafoe
As seen in: Spider-man, Platoon, The English Patient, American Psycho, Speed 2: Cruise Control, The Boondock Saints, Once Upon a Time in Mexico, The Aviator
Christopher Walken
As seen in: Wedding Crashers, Catch Me If You Can, Pulp Fiction, Joe Dirt, Domino, The Stepford Wives, Man on Fire, Click, Man of the Year, Balls of Fire, Envy, Hairspray
Vincent Schiavelli
As seen in: Ghost, Batman Returns, Tomorrow Never Dies, Death to Smoochy
Steve Buscemi
As seen in: Fargo, Reservoir Dogs, Billy Madison, The Big Lebowski, Big Daddy, Con Air, Armageddon, Big Fish, The Island, The Sopranos
John C. Reilly
As seen in: Magnolia, What’s Eating Gilbert Grape, Boogie Nights, The Thin Red Line, The Perfect Storm, Gangs of New York, Chicago, Talladega Nights: The Ballad of Ricky Bobby
Helena Bonham Carter
As seen in: Fight Club, Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix, Planet of the Apes, Big Fish, Charlie and the Chocolate Factory
Pruitt Taylor Vince
As seen in: Natural Born Killers, S1m0ne, Identity, Monster, Constantine, Deadwood
Robert Davi
As seen in: Die Hard, The Goonies, License to Kill, Showgirls
Joe Pesci
As seen in: Half Nelson, Lethal Weapon 2, Goodfellas, Home Alone, My Cousin Vinny, With Honors, Casino, 8 Heads in a Duffel Bag, The Good Shepherd
Sandra Bernhard
As seen in: Roseanne, Law & Order: SVU, The L Word
Clint Howard
As seen in: Tango & Cash, Apollo 13, Ed TV, My Dog Skip, Little Nicky, Austin Powers: The Spy Who Shagged Me, Cinderella Man, How to Eat Fried Worms, Halloween
Dan Hedaya
As seen in: “Yes, Dear”, Swimfan, Mulholland Dr., Shaft, Clueless, Cheers, The First Wives Club, The Addams Family, Joe Versus the Volcano, Slow Burn, A Night at the Roxbury
Tim Curry
As seen in: Clue, The Rocky Horror Picture Show, The Hunt for Red October, It, Home Alone 2: Lost in New York, Congo, A Christmas Carol, Charlie’s Angels, Scary Movie 2
Ron Perlman
As seen in: Hellboy, The Last Winter, Star Trek: Nemesis, Enemy t the Gates, Blade II, Crime and Punishment, Star Trek: Nemesis
Danny Trejo
As seen in: Once Upon a Time in Mexico, Halloween, Grindhouse, Delta Farce, The Devil’s Rejects, Anchorman: The Legend of Ron Burgundy, Reindeer Games, Inferno, The Replacement Killers, Con Air
Linda Hunt
As seen in: Kindergarten Cop, The Practice, Carnivale, Yours, Mine and Ours, Stranger than Fiction, The Incredibles (voice of Edna)
David Thewlis
As seen in: Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban, Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix, Basic Instinct 2, Dragonheart, Seven Years in Tibet, The Big Lebowski, The Omen, The New World, Kingdom of Heaven, Timeline, The Island of Dr. Moreau
Joan Cusack
As seen in: Sixteen Candles, Toys, Grosse Pointe Blank, Runaway Bride, In & Out, High Fidelity, The School of Rock, Raising Helen
Pete Postlethwaite
As seen in: Alien 3, The Usual Suspects, Hamlet, Romeo + Juliet, Dragonheart, The Lost World: Jurassic Park, Amistad, Æon Flux, The Constant Gardener, The Omen
Whew, that was a lot of ugly. But who cares? They are more famous and far richer than you or I. Not to mention they are talented, and we love to watch them because they “fit” their roles.
Some beauty
It doesn’t matter if you’re not cookie-cutter perfect for your goals. What matters is getting there by being unique and great at what you do.
So stop worrying if you’re not smart enough, not fast enough, not goodly at writing enough, or not beautiful enough. You’re unique and talented in your own respect, and that’s what will allow you to achieve your dreams.
-Ravi Vora
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I’ve found some of the most important factors to being insanely interesting and wrote an article on Jarkko Laine’s blog.
I’d suggest you read it if you’d like to be interesting even if you’re not a movie star, a genius, a billionaire, or have your own Discovery Channel show. And believe me, not everyone that is famous is worth talking to, but you can be.
Now go own the world.-Ravi Vora
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“I guess it wasn’t meant to be.”
If I could remove one saying from all human languages, this would be the one.
These words mean giving up. They mean pushing your responsibility to
someone else. Not taking responsibility for your own life.
Reaching your dream doesn’t happen without setbacks. It takes patience.
Sometimes your dreams are far away, but the only way you can move towards
them is one step at a time.
Here are some ideas for cultivating patience and getting that saying out
of your vocabulary:
- Start by making sure the dream really is important to you. If the
dream doesn’t matter, then maybe it really isn’t meant to be. Leave it
aside and think about your next dream. - Think about the outcomes: What is your life going to be like if you
don’t reach this goal? What about if you do? If the outcome of making
this dream into reality outweighs the one of not doing anything, this
dream is a good candidate for keeping. - Enjoy the ride as long as it goes smoothly.
- From time to time, remind yourself about why you’re doing all this
work. For example this morning when I woke up at five AM to write this
blog post I had to push myself a bit to remember that this is helping me
reach my goal of becoming a professional writer. - At times of setbacks, look back at the failure to see what you could
do differently in the future. Recover from the failure and keep going.
One of my wife’s biggest dreams has been to be a psychologist. Getting
accepted to study psychology is not easy (at least here in Finland the
entrance exams for psychology are among the hardest ones) but she was
determined to get in. After each failed attempt she cried for a while,
took a break for a few days and then started thinking about the next
year’s exams. Now she is one of the top students in he class. - Find friends who support your dream and want to see you succeed. When
others start saying things like “what if it’s not meant to be?” you need
someone who says the opposite: “Don’t listen to that. Think about how
much effort you have already put into this. If you give up now, it will
all go to waste.”
If you apply to a school and get a few points too little, study more and
try again next year. If you still don’t get admitted, study still more.
And while studying keep your mind open to see if there could be some other
way of getting admitted than through entrance exams.
If you start a business and your first customer decides not to pay you,
learn new ways to make sure the next one pays and move on.
When someone says that maybe your dream wasn’t meant to be after all,
don’t give in.
It’s your dream. It’s important to you.
Be patient. Work hard. And one day when your dream becomes reality they
will have to take their words back.
Why aren’t you pursuing your dream?
Most people are afraid to pursue their dreams because they don’t know what the future will have in store for them. They don’t know what’s coming. Bad things could happen. How unfortunate that people with skill, talent, and natural ability get lost because of fear.
It takes drive. It takes determination. It takes will. You have to want it so bad that whatever happens in the future is worth the sacrifices.
It’s time to stop fearing the future and start living for it.
Every day won’t be perfect. Sometimes you will fail. Sometimes no one will want to listen to you. Sometimes everyone will turn the other way.
Sometimes you will succeed, though. Sometimes you will win. Sometimes everyone will rejoice and want more of you.
It is the strength to get through the tough times that makes the good times so wonderful.
It is the nature of the future to be dangerous.
That’s what makes life worth living. Not knowing how your actions or the actions of others will effect your life is why you keep trying every day. The danger of good things happening, the unknown, even the supposed certainties.
We all know we’re going to die. That’s a certainty. But we’ve all wondered “What if I didn’t die? What if there was a way?”
The danger of the future is what makes it wondrous, exciting, mysterious, enigmatic, fantastic, and worth seeing.
So what are you waiting for? Go get it. Reach for your dream. Your life can only get better from here.
Now go own the world.-Ravi Vora
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